By nature, we pursue what we don't have.
You have to work at a marriage by focusing on the relationship.
When you think something good, say it.
13 But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.
When you think of something special, do it.
17 If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.
When you want something different, be it.